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The most powerful weapon for world change

September 19, 2016

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I started the dialogue Sunday on vision, citing scripture that backs up the call for us to have a vision. Maintaining a vision for our lives calls forth a commitment to pursue excellence at all times.

If you read this blog, you likely have a vision to feed your mind with positive and always be “moving toward” a life of excellence. To me, having a vision increases the ownership and personal focus I have and it also accelerates my energy level, as I move toward those goals.

One topic that I wanted to put out there this week is the importance of casting a VISION toward world change. I know I don’t have a strong enough vision here. I honestly feel this is our biggest need right now nationwide, to redirect away from ourselves and toward larger issues that loom. I honestly have no idea what to do about this election, which is reason enough. I also have strong feelings about the ongoing prejudices that happen, both silent and vocal and the tragedy of lost lives rings in my ears. If you are like me, you might not know where to start, where to put your best foot forward, without creating more tension around you. The problem of course is that if we choose to be silent, then we choose to give permission to the unacceptable.

Quite simply, people always have needed a PLAN wth a vision. A step by step explanation of how to move from vision to reality. A simple first step for today is to begin to think through who you need on your “team” to accomplish your vision. Bill Hybels shares the 3 “Cs” of selection in his Courageous Leadership book. They include CHARACTER, COMPETENCE and my favorite, CHEMISTRY. This quote had an immediate impact on me: “I never  invite a person on to the team who doesn’t have a positive emotional effect on me from the minute I meet them.”

How good is that? To create real world change we need a VISION, and after we define something we want to work toward, we need to decide who we want to accomplish that with… START with this simple thought and let’s move FORWARD TODAY.

Filed Under: Faith, Grit, Inspiration

Simple Thoughts Sunday: The Power In Vision

September 18, 2016

(Photo Creds: My iPhone, believe it or not! Cool picture from last weekend in Northern Idaho. The water was that blue, and the mountains that clear. God’s pure beauty showing off.)blog_837852_2957228_1474207925
I am going to be sticking with the theme of VISION this week. We all need a vision, and there is biblical support of that truth. This is true whether we live in a retirement community, on a boat, on a college campus, or in our homes and workplace.

At all times in human history, we have survived and thrived through the power of VISION. We must focus on three key things around VISION:

  1. Seeing and clarifying the vision:Just where does God want me to go? For me this has only been made clear through the reading of scripture and other books, podcasts, sermons, etc., that seem to be delivering to me consistent and similar messages. This is how I know it is a vision I need to follow.
  2. Owning the vision: In other words, being obedient to the vision. If we want to truly move forward from whatever it is, we have to take action and today generally is better than tomorrow (or putting it off.)
  3. Energizing and Inspiring others and their visions: I happen to believe we are all designed to help others. It’s the only way this world has ever worked brilliantly. Whether it’s lifting someone up on your shoulders, or locking arms and walking through a situation together, or words of encouragement as they press on. Regardless of the way this is done, our actions are CRITICAL.

This has been a bit more than a “simple thought,” so I’ll press pause and continue Tuesday.

Have an amazing week and my prayer is that your vision would be made clear if it is not and that you make it a priority to continue to follow where God leads you and make a difference in our generation. There is so much power in that.

Filed Under: Faith, Grit, Simple Thoughts Sunday, Workplace Tagged With: Christian, Faith, Take action, Workplace

On this 15th anniversary…

September 11, 2016

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On a day like today, I never know what to say that is powerful and meaningful enough. Thankfully this scripture does this for me. In fact, in life, scripture seems to cover many of our experiences. I love this truth.

Similarly, while this photo that captured the American spirit, it also serves as a statement of our unity and power in times of tragedy.

As we reflect and give honor today, the excerpt below from biblegateway.com captures well a perspective that helps us continue to wrap our mind around events such as this that mark our lives. I hope it speaks to you as well.
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The Biblical book of Psalms was quoted a lot in the months following 9/11— and it’s not hard to see why. Many of the psalms, particularly David’s cries to God for justice and security, are a perfect model of the Christian response to tragedy. See Psalm 27, where David asks God to deliver him from enemies: his ultimate hope and comfort is not in wartime victory or physical safety (although he may hope for those)… but in the goodness of God.

The LORD is my light and my salvation—
whom shall I fear?
The LORD is the stronghold of my life—
of whom shall I be afraid?
When the wicked advance against me
to devour me,
it is my enemies and my foes
who will stumble and fall.
Though an army besiege me,
my heart will not fear;
though war break out against me,
even then I will be confident.
One thing I ask from the LORD,
this only do I seek:
that I may dwell in the house of the LORD
all the days of my life,
to gaze on the beauty of the LORD
and to seek him in his temple.
For in the day of trouble
he will keep me safe in his dwelling;
he will hide me in the shelter of his sacred tent
and set me high upon a rock. […]
I remain confident of this:
I will see the goodness of the LORD
in the land of the living.
Wait for the LORD;
be strong and take heart
and wait for the LORD.
 (Psalm 27, NIV)

The Bible contains many stories of injustice, tragedy and suffering inflicted on God’s people. The afflicted people respond with all the emotions we would expect: anger, disbelief, fear, indignation, and even doubt in God’s sovereignty.

These are the same emotions that flood through our minds even today, fifteen years after the event, as we remember watching those twin towers fall. But time and time again, the Bible writers remind themselves — and us — that God is in control, and that our most important spiritual response to tragedy is to look to God’s endless love and incomprehensible faithfulness:

I will never forget this awful time,
as I grieve over my loss.
Yet I still dare to hope
when I remember this:
The faithful love of the Lord never ends!
His mercies never cease.
Great is his faithfulness;
his mercies begin afresh each morning. (Lamentations 3:20-23, NLT)

To turn your face to God in the aftermath of tragedy is to defy the power of evil, and to place your hope in the one Person who can bring good out of even the most horrifying disaster. As you think back on the 9/11 attacks today and in the future, may your sorrow and mourning point you to the glorious hope of Jesus Christ, and the restoration he promises.

(Photo Creds:  We Heart It)

Filed Under: Faith Tagged With: Christian, Faith

This is one hero we need to emulate

September 4, 2016

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Today, Mother Teresa will be Canonized by Pope Francis and officially becomes a saint. I had to look that up as many of you might have as well.

Thankfully, it’s as simple as it sounds. Canonization is the process by which the Catholic Church solemnly proclaims that a holy person becomes inscribed on the list (i.e. the canon) of those persons who may be venerated publicly in the liturgy of the Catholic Church. In the case of Mother Teresa she will receive her own feast day with a Mass and a liturgical office constructed to offer due veneration to her.

Of course many of us already unofficially consider her at the highest level a human being could attain in displaying the virtues of a life of service to others. A true hero, a life to emulate.

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Mother Teresa is perhaps “the best” example for us of living a life in the real, postmodern world, and trying to serve as the “salt and the light” improving our communities, home, schools and workplace. Although she was clearly a holy person, her life service was primarily given to non-Christians and those not normally of the church. In fact, if you take a few minutes to study her life more carefully you will find that she often acted out her mission without the help we might expect a saint to have surrounded themselves with. She shared how she often found no encouragement in prayer and “had a bewildering sense of absence of God; finding little but dryness in her encounter with scripture.” (Cunningham, Vatican, 9/3/2016)

Many of my friends have confided this very reality to me and I can say prior to 5 years ago when I went deeper in my faith that this was often true of me as well. What’s important to me here is that she was doing ordinary life, and to her doing ordinary things, and had no idea that what she was doing was truly extraordinary. The message to me is to keep reading scripture, keep praying, keep serving, keep digging deep and God will reveal the EXTRAORDINARY IN YOUR LIFE.

Have a week that is blessed beyond. My bold prayers for you all!

(Photo creds: We Heart It, Ruthie Stark Photography)

Filed Under: Faith, Inspiration, Workplace Tagged With: Bold, Christian, Faith, Workplace

LET GO…

August 28, 2016

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THERE IS THRILL IN LETTING GO.

It is exhilarating to be the one jumping, and it is about the same but in a scarier way to see children, yours or anyone’s, releasing from the rope swing … off the lake cliff… into the water!

It’s about the same with life decisions. Exhilarating (Check). Scary (Check). And I can think of a few other choice words…

The great news is that we weren’t designed to take on the world and in fact, God designed us to be his helpers as our key role… We have an unbelievably capable leader who will handle our lives much better than we can.

So, what do you need to let go of this week? What is better left in God’s hands? Your job? A Relationship? Your spending decisions? Your “up late worrying” track record? Overthinking?

Let’s each identify something we need to let go of this week. The summer is seeing it’s last days, and there is no better way to launch into fall than letting go! “Into his capable hands and out of mine!” LOVE THE IDEA!

Have the BEST WEEK EVER!

(Photo creds: We Heart It)LET GO…

Filed Under: Faith, Inspiration Tagged With: Christian, Faith

Choose what you magnify!

August 21, 2016

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This is SO USEFUL! With the start of a new school year and the rigor of work getting fired up to its normal level, August can be stressful.

I have heard many a friend or colleague share their personal “madness” around this time of year. My own family is feeling the pressure with college starting back up. I remember August when the boys were elementary, middle and high schoolers, and it ranks right up there with my view of pure chaos. (For God’s sake if I need to bring Gatorade to another game, get another PTA email begging someone to sign up to help… Friday concessions anyone? Science Fair chair?) 

This chaos is the kind you feel when you get awakened in the middle of the night, aren’t even awake and yet know you need to take action, as in now. It can be rough folks. The sleepless nights, low grade anxiety or full blown freak-out mode… we can get caught up in the push and pull of this season.

I had this friendly reminder come across my email in a bit of a different form earlier this week. I have actually found a use for it more than a few times this week and hope you may find it inspiring as well. As you roll into your week, CHOOSE TO MAGNIFY all things that drive you to YOUR BEST SELF. You of course can choose to magnify the transition, the stress, the fact that your heart rate is increasing due to the anxiety of a new instructor, boss, etc., and all of the family/friend “stuff” that can consume us. YOU CAN ALSO CHOOSE TO MAGNIFY the JOY that can definitely be found. CHOOSE TO DO THAT! I promise your week will be BETTER if you do so. SInce it’s Sunday, here is a favorite Bible verse to meditate on that has the same thought in mind:

“And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise.” (Phil 4:8 NLT) 

MAGNIFY ALL THINGS EXCELLENT THIS WEEK!

Filed Under: Faith, Family, Home Tagged With: Christian, Faith, Family, Take action

What is your agenda for me today?

August 14, 2016

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Don’t you love when an unexpected meeting, turns into a fast friendship? I so do! In fact, I consider it a gift from God. A little smile downward letting us know that we are surrounded by angels pretty much at every turn.

One of those great meetings is with someone I really love, “KP.” KP has a transportation company and is a local pastor. He is absolutely in love with his wife of many years and an amazing father. He has a gift with words and prayer and is one of those gifted in teaching. I learn from him. Last week while we were headed to the airport he shared that for the last several weeks he has been trying out this phrase to start his days:

God, what is your agenda for me today?

Isn’t that so cool? What if we just startour day out with that simple question? I believe that what KP shared is true… if we open our eyes and pay attention we will be amazed at what God shows us during the day.

blog_825755_2942381_1471214585He has been doing this for a few weeks now and has been astonished by the people that have come across his path. In fact, those people were probably there before (the young mom struggling to load the car with groceries with two kids in the cart and one by their side, the complaining older gentleman at the post office, the “Facebook friend” that seems to always be having an issue of some kind…).
The truth is, that sometimes, not intentionally we aren’t “fully in,” paying attention to the cues and the opportunities to reach out with a helping hand, an encouraging word, a silent prayer.

I’m going to give this a shot. It will take some intention… I’ll try to pay attention and share some stories as they come along. I’d love it if you joined me, and I’d love to share your stories if you are up for it!

I thought you might like to see KP so I asked him to take a pic with me. Also, if you ever need transportation across town or to the airport, he’s a trusted friend!

(Photo cred: We Heart It)

Filed Under: Faith, Grit Tagged With: Christian, Faith

What is your pain?

June 28, 2016

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I was on a flight back last week from Seattle and had a great conversation with my seat mate. Those of you who know me well may think I would normally “chat it up” with a passenger, but truthfully I am the one to throw on the headphones (even if I don’t have anything on) and try to relax and think and maybe even take a nap! Not really a big fan of plane conversation. Anyway, I’d been flying all week and this was one of the last legs, and she was really great. We got to talking about how we are currently in the process of selling our home, and I was sharing with her the inspection report and subsequent negotiations. In short, the new owners want to take a bit more out off of the price to deal with some minor issues and that I didn’t really think was fair, but also didn’t want to upset the apple cart so to speak and ruin the deal. Her response was great and WORTH SHARING.

“SO, WHAT IS YOUR PAIN….?”

I didn’t get it right away, but ultimately it was PURE BRILLIANCE. We all have our own pain points. How much pain are we willing to endure…to experience?  It can be emotional or physical dollars as in this case. It can be both of course. I had to think through this with her. In this case, if the deal fell through because I didn’t concede, I would be out perhaps a couple or more months of a mortgage payment, on top of my new payments relating to the move etc. Once I thought of it that way, their ask didn’t seem too much and would quickly add up to the amount they were asking for.  Decision made. Once I realized the amount of what my pain could be, it wasn’t hard.  (Side note: Why in the world had I never thought of this process?)

Some after thoughts I had or other possible scenarios…

What if you have someone at work that is a challenge… What is your pain? What happens if you address it or not?

What if you need to make a big purchase, a new refrigerator, or something expensive… What is your pain if you do or don’t do it now? It may help you to understand if you just can’t tolerate the pain level, you may need to consider other options, perhaps a Craigslist fridge for now….?

What if you have a friend or relative that is about to make a bad decision… What is their pain? Can you help them out by using this as a problem solving mechanism to frame up the real issues they may have based on their choices?

I hope this resonates with some of you all!  I thought it was a tremendous insight and worth the time to think on for a bit… I will be using this now when confronted with a decision.

(Photo Creds:  I’m not sure…It’s been on my “reel” for awhile..)

Filed Under: Adventures, Faith

We Need your Voice

June 13, 2016

blog_805854_2920748_1465865666I found this sign on my drive back from an appointment last week. I immediately did a U-TURN to snap a picture. I know I have seen business owners/churches, etc use their sign for humorous or inspirational messages before but this one is REALLY GOOD.

It’s SIMPLE and YES, I do need to call my grandmother more often, and probably my dad for that matter. GREAT REMINDER, THANKS SONIC, I’LL DO THAT RIGHT NOW!  IT’S IMPORTANT!

In addition to that thought, I am constantly thinking about how we should all use our voice. Whether you are America’s Drive-In, a 5 year old, or a 105 year old, God gave you a voice. Your voice is your point of view, your story, your contribution. The world needs it. Perhaps more than ever.

Our world is relying on it as a matter of fact. What insights do you need to offer your team at work? Your child? Your city? Raise your hand, write a letter, post a blog, tweet, insta or snapchat. USE YOUR VOICE!

(Photo credit: My own)

Filed Under: Community, Faith Tagged With: Christian, Faith

Life’s adventure!

June 5, 2016

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(Photo credit: My own, Scripture: Message version) 

Happy Sunday evening everyone!

I was in South Florida this week for corporate meetings, and during the week we had the opportunity to go out on this little fishing charter and enjoy the ocean. I love the lake, but hadn’t been out in the deep sea to fish, so a bit of an experience.

One of the guides, “Kunta” (I’m totally guessing on the spelling…) told us his life story. He was raised in Africa, and has traveled and lived across the world, and now spends his later years as a fishing guide.

“Kunta” shared that he was always out “looking” for his “life destiny or adventure.”  He has had a full life, now enjoys a collection of six Harley Davidson motorcycles, has some great connections,  but the closest he could find peace was being near the ocean.

blog_803373_2916380_1465137433(“Kunta” doing what he does best!)

His life is like many of ours, in that many times it seems we are looking and looking for whatever it is we need at that moment: peace, happiness, more adventure, financial freedoms, love…

The scripture above caught my attention, because I have found this to be THE ONE TRUTH I can absolutely count on. No matter what we try to seek for, HIS LOVE IS TRULY ALL WE NEED. We can find it in prayer and meditation, scripture reading or being with others that point us in that direction.

This is a simple, yet profound thought if we can grasp it and pursue it with everything is us. Have a terrific week, I’m praying for each of you! \

Filed Under: Adventures, Faith

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